Monday, March 14

To My Girls (Boys, keep out)

Well this is to all my darlings. Why is it that us girls (or women if you have come to terms with that word yet....which I sure have not!) just can't accept that we are gorgeous beings. I have to admit to being an offender and to all of you I am sorry, we need to band together! It breaks my heart when someone who is so dear to me and who is completely beautiful in my eyes does not like herself or her looks or her whatever... I know maybe this is not the same as coming for some dreamy boy but I mean every word. I think girls are afraid to consider that she might be beautiful because 'what if someone tells her otherwise?" Wouldn't it hurt so much more going into life knowing that you are amazing and valuable and to have that crushed and stepped on when someone may not agree (out of complete blindness or ignorance I suppose). Then ladies, when will it get to the point where it is worth the possibility of pain to admit that you are special? I guess this is a question that each girl has to answer for herself.
Now for each one of you so you know that I'm serious: ashley darling, your tanned skin is beautiful and I love that you are so generous and thoughtful. Sarah, your blue eyes are amazing and I love the way you whistle when you are in a good mood (which happens to be almost always!), Jaacquie, you are very graceful and I love that you are mysterious and that I get to know that side of you. Becky, I love your laugh and you smile, you have a gift for making everyone around you feel special and included. Christine, the eyes again, you've heard it before but they are stunning, but I also love how you are willing to back up your opinions and be strong when it matters. Shelly, your eyes are fantastic and I would trade you for your hair any day ; ), it is refreshing to know someone who is so open and honest about how she feels and I think this post is partly possible because I know that other ppl express their feelings on here (a good release eh?). Leah, i love that you laugh loud and lots and I love your nose (and you feet? haha). You are so friendly and willing to help. Paula, I love your beautiful smile and how you always have something nice to say to everyone and but you aren't afraid to say what is on your mind. Lauren, your freckles and blong hair are spectacular. Your ability to be a good friend, to have fun and to have a serious side is great! Allison, your red hair is gorgeous and who else has hands like Lindsay Lohan? You are one of the sweetest and most thoughtful people I know and I love that about you. Meredith, my girl,you have to be one of the spunkiest, most understanding people I know. And I love your eyes, I think they are so gorgeous, and fantastcially large. Oh man, I could go on all night about you ladies and about so many other hot gals I am lucky enough to know but I am tired. I hope you take this in the way I meant it....really, really :).

3 comments:

shellieos said...

awww...kaite..so sweet

Ashley said...

Katie ~ you put a smile to my day!
Thank you for your honesty, and reminding us (girls that is) not to subcome to 'beating' ourselves up about our looks...

Now for you ~ How can anyone define your beauty in one feature? I love your dimple, your ladylike hands and super long legs, your victorian complexion and the way your eyes light up when you laugh... but most of all, I love that you are honest enough to say when you're not being real, and that I can be real around you.... and hey, I can't forget.... you are fun!!!

Ps. Is this a comment or does it classify as a blog... it is certainly long enough ;)

Love Ya,
Ash

Becks said...

Katie... I'm speechless (which doesn't usually happen lol). I am so thankful for our friendship! Ashley definately summed you up really well... You are an awesome person.. thanks so much for spending the time to compliment each one of us individually, it means so much than any other generic compliment. You totally made my day! I love you Katie Vikken and I feel so blessed that God has placed you in my life!!!

- Becky

PS. I'm so looking forward to spending this summer with you!!!